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memorial was put up for Robert where people left mostly teddy bears in
memory of him. This was due to Robert's family pleading that he be reunited
with teddy bear several days after the search for him began. Other people
left notes stating that they were praying for him. The memorial was set
to stay up for several days and then the teddy bears were going to be donated
to Ronald McDonald house in memory of Robert.
One woman tried to
read her note out loud and ended up in tears:
"It says
Robert we have prayed and prayed for you for 10 days. Oh man, the loss
I feel for not
knowing and
getting to talk to you"

Leonora Porter and
her three children, left messages at a memorial for Robert:
“We knew
him. Robert was our friend”

Pastor George Sova
spoke for the family during the service:
"What began as
a community's search for a missing child and ended in the discovery of
a tragic,
tragic death
of this sweet innocent boy"
"You were a
gift. Though it was extremely short, you will always be in our hearts"
Robert's teacher
also spoke:
"When you spend
seven hours a day, five days a week with someone, you get attached. Robert
was one of
my kids and it's not fair to lose someone so young"
Christie Morales
"And as for
today we can assure that God and all his angels are getting lots of hugs
from Robert.
We love you
and miss you Robert"
Christie Morales
Robert's father wrote
a letter to him which said, in part:
"You were a
little light in a dark and cruel world and you were taken from us too soon.
These
last two weeks
have proven that Boise is the city of brotherly love. Our family grown
by
thousands
of people in last two weeks"
Charles Manwill
Note: Melissa
Jenkins also wrote a letter, I don't feel she deserves to have it remembered
after what she did.
The letter that Charles
wrote, was ready read by Pastor George Sova at the funeral for Robert.
Before he was laid to rest, Robert's family all stood together as white
Doves were released.
Robert was laid to
rest on August 9, 2009. Services were held at the Cloverdale Funeral home
on Sunday. There were hundreds of people there to say goodbye to Robert
among them, family, friends, a contingent of the Idaho National Guard in
dress uniform and many of the people who had helped search for him and
held vigils for him.

Chuck Manwill held
his daughter close to him as they laid her brother to rest ,saying goodbye
to him at his funeral.

At his service, Robert's
father released a single white Dove.
On the day of his
funeral, there was another walk for Robert, only this one was to carry
him to his final resting place. Robert was laid to rest next to his grandfather.

Pallbearers carried
the glass encases urn which held the ashes of Robert, and placed them in
front of the crowd at the service. White Doves were released after family
members whispered messages for them to carry to Robert. After the service,
people walked to the grave-site where Robert would be laid to rest next
to his Grandfather and his halfbrother who had been stabbed to death by
Charle's Manwill's ex-wife from a previous marriage.
Below is the letter
from Charles to Robert:
Robert,
You were a little
light in a dark and cruel world. And you were taken from us long before
your life on this earth should have ended.
I remember before
you were even born, talking to your mom on the phone late at night and
she would hold the phone to her belly so I could say good night to our
little sunshine. That's the way it was even before we knew that you would
be a baby boy.
You touched the
lives of everyone you ever met with your exuberance for life. I would simply
explain to them that you were 100 pounds of energy packed into 50 pounds
of body.
I know that you
were not in any way perfect, you had your faults just like the rest of
us, from that annoying in-your-face attitude to your insatiable need to
add your two cents to every conversation, even when you had no idea what
we were talking about.
However, once
someone met you, there was no forgetting the name Robert. Because someone
was always yelling your name and telling you not to do this or not to do
that.
Later, you had
such a special way of touching people's hearts in such a way it was so
easy to overlook your shortcomings and love you for just being you.
For hundreds of
years, Philadelphia has been known as the 'City of Brotherly Love.' But
these last two weeks have proven beyond any doubt that Boise is the City
of Brotherly Love.
You have always
had a large family, Robert, both immediate and extended. But over these
last two weeks your family has grown by literally thousands of people.
I remember how
when you would get into trouble or even when you simply didn't get your
way, you would always claim that 'This is the worst day ever!'
You would say
this over the most minor things that were truly laughable such as actually
having to finish your homework, or writing your spelling words to practice
your handwriting.
Son, July 24,
2009, was the worst day ever.
That is the day
that someone ended the beautiful little man that you were.
My first reaction
was to find the low-life SOB and make him suffer in oh so many ways for
the horrible crime he perpetrated against you.
Mom Afton holds
me back and reminds me that this family can't afford to lose another member
in pointless revenge. Especially since it will not bring you back to us.
And we need to let the police and the FBI do their job, a job that they
do well.
We need to allow
the justice system to do their job and bring the bastard to justice.
You know, I am
not a religious man. And many times I don't believe in God. But I do know
and believe there is a special place in Hell for anyone who could hurt
such a special little soul like you and rob the world of your shining light.
Rest assured,
Robert, that while your remains are being held close to your grandfather's
chest, with your brother Michael at your side, rest assured that the police
will continue to work tirelessly until they are able to bring the justice
you need and make the one responsible for taking you from us ... to the
maximum extent that the law will allow.
I need you to
know, Robert, we will never, ever forget the time we were allowed to know
you. You were a gift, though extremely short. You will always be in our
hearts.
Robert's
Story
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