
Christian
Milton Chaote
December 27, 1995
- April 5, 2009

In Gary, Indiana the body of
Christian Milton Chaote was dug up by the Lake County Police. Christian
had been abused, tortured and eventually killed by his father, Riley
Choate and his stepmother, Kimberly Kubina. Even more shocking than his
actual death was the fact that Christian had told his Physician that he
was being locked up during the night. Christian's Pediatrician was Dr. (not that she deserves that title)
Leticia Chy-Koa and she never bothered to report what he had told her
to the proper authorities. By law, Doctors are required to report
abuse, however, it seems that none of them ever face a consequence when
they fail to follow that law.
Christian was being treated for depression, anxiety and ADD before and
at the time of his death. Records seemed to be illegible, the
handwritten notes of Dr. Chy-Koa were not able to be read except for a
few things and one of those was that he was having accidents in his
pants. When Christian told her during a visit in 2008 that he was being
locked in a cage at night, she didn't feel the need to tell anyone
about it. When contacted about what she had been told and how she had
failed to report it, she had this to say:
"I sent the records to the Department Of
Child Services and that should
be sufficient. There's no reason for me to take calls from you"
No, Dr Chy-Koa, what WOULD have been sufficient would
have been you doing your job, protecting an innocent child from those
who he TOLD you were abusing
him, reporting the abuse to CPS and saving the life of this little boy.
He's dead and YOU are partly
to blame for that! If you did nothing wrong, you would STILL be
working for the Highland Medical Practice, you're not. Prosecutors were
trying to decide if charges should be filed against Dr. Chy-Koa, though
a gag order eventually prevented them from talking about it and a two
year statute of limitations was most likely going to stop the charges
from being filed.
Christian Choate was 13 years old when he was beaten to death and
buried by his parents outside of their
trailer house. At that point, the family had been getting regular
visits from CPS for more than ten years. If a family is getting
visited for TEN years, isn't
that a red flag? There is a file which is said to be over an inch
thick about the visit CPS paid to the family over ten years. The file
consists of allegations of abuse and/or
neglect from 1999 to 2009. Many opportunities were missed that
could have saved the life of Christian,
once again, a child was failed over and over by those who are PAID to protect him.
Christian's parents were charged with murder after his older sister,
who was 17 at that time, told the police
what happened when he died. It was less than one year before his death
that DCS records shows that a
visit was made to the family home to interview Christian, his parents
and his siblings to check on a report
that Christian was being help under "house arrest".
Prosecutors say that Christian has been beaten every day, had been
given very little food, often had accidents
in his pants and was locked in a cage that was three foot high and
would normally hold a dog. In the report
was mention of Christian having been to the doctor on many occasions
from 2007 to 2008. The doctor noted
that Christian was losing weight on a consistent basis and that he had
told the doctor someone had hit him
with the door in his bedroom, just two days before a visit in February
of 2007. It was only one month later
when the doctor noted that he was angry all the time and that he was
being locked up at night.
Christian was caged naked or chained to a bed frame at night and didn't
dare make any noise for fear he was
going to get beaten. Police say that the abuse took place over a three
year period. Riley Lowell Choate, who
was 39 at that time and Kimberly Leona Kubina, who was 45 at that time,
were charged with murder, battery,
neglect of a dependent and criminal confinement, in Lake County,
Indiana.
There were witnesses who reported to police that Riley would slap
Christian in the face when family members
said that Christian had molested a relative. Considering that Riley was
accused of abusing his nieces, I would
say he had a double standard going on. The abuse that Christian
suffered got worse as time went on and
Riley and Kimberly began to fight a lot. Riley took everything out on
Christian.
A witness told police that Christian had lived in the dog cage, which
was bought from a neighbor and had
seven locks on it, for over a year. Why didn't this witness tell police
BEFORE Christian
died? I just don't get
it! Christian's 17 year old sister, Christina Choate, was made to chain
him to a bed frame at times. The sister told police that she was the
one who had to feed Christian, take him to the bathroom, help him to
exercise and even do the physical punishing of Christian if he
disobeyed. The sister says she was abused when she didn't do what she
was told to do to Christian.
The sister said that Kimberly told the other children that Christian
was as dog and that was why he needed to be locked up.
Christian was denied food as the beatings got worse and at times was
naked or in a diaper in the cage. At times
he was gagged with a sock and duct tape. While the other children tried
to sneak him food, Christian could be
heard at times screaming from being given an ice cold bath and his
hands were beginning to turn purple from the
amount of time he spent tied to the bed frame. His sister states that
she would at times hit him once and then
choke him until he would turn blue. A video camera was often used to
record the abuse he suffered. The tapes
were eventually taped over though several devices were taken from the
family home including computers, digital
cameras and cell phones.
The day before he died, Christian was refusing to eat anything at all.
Riley became angry about this and punched
him in the head several times before he was forced back into the case.
April 5, 2011 was no different. Christian
refused to eat cereal brought to him by his sister who then slapped him
and put him back into the cage. After
checking on his several times, the sister noticed that he was not
breathing and called her stepmother and aunt.
CPR was attempted with an air mattress pump, it was unsuccessful.
Christian's sister was told by her stepmother
to wrap him in a blanket and put him inside black, plastic trash bags
which would be secured with duct tape.
Christian was then buried, covered with cement and the family
eventually moved away.
Kimberly told her other children that Christian had run away. A witness
says that Kimberly asked Riley if he
thought they would get caught and he replied by asking her what she was
talking about. Kimberly mentioned
the "thing" about Christian. The children were told that Christian's
running away was a family thing and they were
all going to work through it and no one was to talk about it "This goes to the grave"
she was quoted as saying.
Christian was missing for two years and no one even noticed.
Aimee Estrada, Christian's biological mother said that she left Riley
after he started to abuse her. Riley had
custody of their two children and was not allowed to see them after
2005. On May 1, 2011, she contacted the
police after her daughter told her that Christian was dead.
CPS claims that they saw no signs
of abuse at all in the household.
"We followed all state
laws and policies and procedures and we'll continue
assessing this fatality"
DCP Spokeswoman - Anne Houseworth
Anne Houseworth admitted that the
abuse suffered by Christian was exceptional adding that the staff did
follow agency protocol and performed thorough investigations of the
allegations, adding:
"If we don't see any evidence of abuse and no one admits anything is
going on, there
is nothing for us to do"
In
2007, school officials would lose track of Christian after they were
told by Kimberly that he would begin to be
home schooled. After his death, DCP did review some of his assignments
and found that the in his writings he
had expressed thoughts and how he felt at the time:
"Christian's writings
detail a very sad, depressed child who often wondered when someone,
anyone, was going to come and check on him. He wrote of why nobody
liked him and how
he just wanted to be liked by his family, how isolated and sad
Christian was on a daily basis"
When
Christian's stepmother gave him paper to write down how he felt, he
simply wrote "I want to die". Also
written down were accounts of how he had to steal food because he was
given very little to eat and how he was
only let out of his cage to clean the house and rarely got to go
outside. To entertain himself, Christian used the
paper and pencil that his stepmother had given him..
Christian's writing seemed to be random other than when he was given an
assignment by his stepmother which
usually included detailing such things as "Why do you still want to see
your mom?, "Why can't you let the past
go?" and "What does it mean to be part of a family?".
After his death in the cage he was forced ot live in, Christian's
father buried him, covered the grave with concrete
and moved the family away. There threats that no one should tell what
happened. DCS records would show that
his father was a known abuser who was allowed to keep custody of his
son even with the facts right there.

Christian
Milton Choate, age 13, passed away in Gary, IN. He leaves his mother,
Aimee Ericks Estrada; two
sisters: Chrstina Choate and Alyssa Nieto; two step-brothers: Justin
Estrada and Anthony Estrada; aunts:
Theresa (Michael) Harmon, Cindy (John) Oulensby, Kristen (Johnny)
Seratta and Jennifer Eriks; stepfather, Silas
Estrada; maternal grandparents: Bernard and Carol Eriks; maternal great
grandparents: Barbara Rhone and
Hildreth Eriks; and a special father figure: Daniel Nieto. Also a host
of other relatives and dear friends.
Visitation will be on Friday, May 20, 2011 from 4:00-7:00 p.m. with the
funeral service to follow at 7:00p.m..
All services will be held in the Main Chapel at the Ridgelawn Funeral
Home, 4201 West Ridge Road, Gary, In.
(219 980-5555.
Christian will be deeply missed by his family and dear friends. God
Grant Him Eternal Rest. Donations may be
made in care of Ridgelawn Funeral Home.
Published in The Times on May 15, 2011

Aimee Estrada

Christian's
memorial service was started off with a song and then a prayer was said.
Over 150 people got together at the memorial to honor Christian. Adults
and children were all present and heads
were bowed while the Pastor spoke. Pastor
John Hoffmaster said:
"We are here to grieve.
To grieve with the family and grieve with the community. Because
what was done here, was done among us. How did I not know him? How did
you not
know him? How did this escape our attention?"
Family,
friends and strangers all gathered to say their final goodbyes to
Christian. Christian's biological mother
was there to greet mourners with hugs and tears. A photo album showed
pictures of Christian throughout his life
before his life became one of misery and abuse. One card celebrated his
birth! Pictures of Christian in a Winnie
The Pooh onsie, a Kit Kat Bar Halloween costume and baseball clothing
were shown.
Next to Christian's casket was a beautiful flower arrangement with
white Chrysanthemums and red carnations
with a large red bow. The card read: "To Christian, you're safe now".
Mourners walked by his casket and cried.
"I don't know him, I
don't know the family, or the friends, but you feel like we all have a
purpose. Maybe his was to show us how really important love is"
Roberta Nicksich
In
July of 2007, Riley's defense attorneys requested that a second autopsy
be done on Christian. The request
was denied by a Judge in Lake County. Christian's death was listed as
blunt force trauma which caused internal
bleeding and a skull fracture. The request from these lawyers caused
the burial of Christian to be delayed.
In
October of 2011, an additional charge involving sex with a minor was to
be added to Riley's charges.
Eventually, a worker at the Child Welfare office admitted that they had
failed Christian and were unable to keep
tabs on him. Lavetta Sparks-Wade who was head of the Lake Country CPS
until she retired in 2009 said that it
did appear that the DCS workers did not do a thorough enough
investigation into abuse allegations concerning
Christian:
"We failed him. I
can tell you if someone told me there was a boy in a cage, we would have
removed that child from the home immediately. No one must have talked
to this child, or the
other children in the house. An experienced caseworker would have known
something was
wrong if that level of abuse was going on in the household"
Lavetta Sparks Wade

For information about preventing child
abuse in
the state of Indiana, click the links below. If they can't help you,
ask
for someone who can. NEVER give up looking for help for an
abused
child!

Department
Of Children And Families
Call
this number
to report child abuse ANY WHERE in the United States!
1-800-4-A-Child
1-800-422-4453


   



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