Kyle Chandler Smith
August 24, 2004 - June 6, 2008
Eugenia Holmes, a former drug addict, wanted to get
clean so she called on her friend to take care of her child while she went
through the process. She made the mistake of not going through the foster
care system which would have screened the home and monitored the progress
of Kyle.
Neighbors knew that something was not right with
the way Kyle's guardian treated him. Seeing bruises on his body, hearing
the way she yelled and cussed at him and even witnessing odd punishments
such as making him stay out side in freezing temperatures in shorts and
short sleeved shirts. The superintendent of the building they lived in
saw Kyle in a long sleeve jacket when the temperature was so hot that his
guardian had on shorts and a tank top.
Adrian Paulson, who lived a few doors down from Kyle
and Nymeen Cheatham. Adrian said she witnessed something in the elevator
in their building. Nymeen was yelling and cussing at Kyle and even said
she hated him and she hated all kids. The day after he died Adrian said:
“It’s crazy. I’m looking at the lady's face.
I’m stunned.
I’m scared for the child. I’m thinking: She
must be
doing something to that child.”
So, with all of the things that were witnessed by
neighbors and even the superintendent of the building, why didn't anyone
call and report this behavior to Child's Protective Services? When are
people going to learn that if they DO NOT CALL, they might as well
kill these children themselves because they are almost as guilty as their
killers? Adrian Paulson said she didn't call the police because she lived
in the building and did not want to anger Nymeen. I guess in her eyes it
was better that a child suffered and died, than she make a neighbor mad.
“I don’t want to get in no argument with her.
We live on the same floor.”
A visit took place at Nymeen's home after she petitioned
the court for legal custody of Kyle in October of 2007. The Administration
For Children's Services decided that Kyle was happy and safe. The case
for custody was closed, however, when Nymeen didn't show up to the court
hearing on February 4th. Kyle would still remain in her custody.
Eight months before his death, the Administration
For Children's Services was called by Kyle's grandmother who reported that
Kyle had been punched by Nymeen who had told her that Kyle was peeling
paint off of the wall so she punched him. The ACS report stated that Kyle
was happy in his new home:
"Kyle appeared to be very comfortable with
Ms. Cheatham. Ms. Cheatham appears to have a
very good relationship with the child."
No one bothered to check on Kyle in the months after
the report. No one knew that Nymeen had lost custody of five children while
living in Texas. Kyle's fate was sealed when his case was basically forgotten.
The criminal complaint against Lamar Martin and Nymeen
Cheatham tells all about the injuries that Kyle suffered at the hands of
the people who were supposed to give him love and affection. Kyle's guardians
abused him by making him do pushups and march in place as punishment. Cold
water was throw at him many times, again, as punishment.
Lamar claims that while he tried to do CPR on Kyle,
he saw that Nymeen was going to take some pills and wanted to kill herself.
In court papers made public yesterday, Lamar Martin,
25, says he was trying to perform CPR on the child, Kyle Smith, on June
6, when he saw his girlfriend searching for a bottle of pills.
"Just let me take these. I don't want to suffer
with the memory of this. You wasn't here, so nothing
should bother you about what's happening with
Kyle"
Kyle died of blunt force trauma. His body and his
face had lacerations and bruises that included his anus. Lamar Martin told
the police that he had hit Kyle and Nymeen admitted that she had hit him
repeatedly with her hands and had also used a hairbrush to beat him.
Lamar Martin was charged with manslaughter and his
bail was set at $100,000. by Supreme Court Justice Gustin Reichbach, to
the shock of Kyle's family:
"It's crazy. He should not be let out"
Norma Acosta
The judge said that he set a bail since Lamar was
not charged with murder and was instead charged with manslaughter.
"I don't consider $100,000 an insignificant
bail"
Judge Reichbach said
For her part in the death of Kyle, Nymeen Cheatham
was held without bail.
Elliot Smith said that he tried
to get custody of Kyle and was not able to get the courts to allow it:
"More than anything, I wanted my son to be
with me, not them. I fought for Kyle, but they, the
courts didn't give me custody. I love my son.
I just wanted my son to be with me. They never
should have gotten him."
Contradicting what he says, the Administration for
Children's Services say that if Elliot Smith had wanted his son, he could
have taken him at any time since Nymeen Cheatham never had legal guardianship.

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“It was a wrong mistake. It’s a big family.
We feel very bad.”
Eulalia Stack, a friend of the family speaking
of the
decision to leave Kyle with Nymeen
Kyle Smith on his birthday in August 2006.
 
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Kyle's father, Elliot Smith,
posted pictures of his son on his My Space page. His comments spoke of
how devastated he is over the death of his son. Elliot's mother said:
"He is torn. He's in mourning right now. He's
not doing very well at all, but he's hanging on."
Norma Acosta
"That's the last image of my son I'm ever going
to see. And him to just lay there on the table, I just wanted to touch
him. I just wanted to touch him"
Eugenia Holmes after seeing her son at the
morgue
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Kyle's body laid in that morgue for more than a week
because his parents could not come to an agreement on where they were going
to bury him. Elliot wanted to bury him in Manhattan and Eugenia wanted
to bury him in Brooklyn. This time upset some family members:
"We were all upset about the length of time
Kyle was at the morgue,"
anonymous e-mail
A decision was finally made and it was decided that
Kyle would be laid to rest at the Chas Peter Nagel Funeral Home.
"It's heartbreaking. At least they came to
some kind of arrangement about what they wanted to do. At least Kyle will
be at rest. There's no more suffering for him.
Beverly Creighton - grandmother
On June 18, 2008, Kyle Smith was laying in his tiny,
white satin lined casket surrounded by stuffed animals as family and friends
were there to tell him goodbye. Kyle wore a white baseball cap and there
were white and pink roses. A purple monkey wore a New York Jets jersey
and all were placed inside the casket . Baby photos and messages saying
"rest in peace" were placed with Kyle in the casket as well. Though it
was clear that makeup had been put on his face, the affects of the abuse
he had suffered were clear to be seen.
"These people deserve to rot for what they
did to that little boy. You could see the abuse.
I don't know how the bastards could torture
him like that"
Kathleen Young - family friend
Kyle's father, mother and other family members attended
the service and the funeral.
"Everyone is grieving. As a mother, you feel
sick."
Kathleen Young
"It's important that everybody is together.
We're trying to keep everything settled"
Elliot Smith
Mourning for Kyle were many family and friends including
his grandmother Norma Acosta, his father, Elliot Smith and his mother,
Eugenia Holmes. Also attending were Donna Cortel, Kathleen Young and her
son, Derek McShane.
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Kyle's tiny casket leaves the service, heading for
his final resting place.
"Life is eternal, and the time we spend here
on Earth is very short. But Kyle will be welcomed into heaven where he
will be waiting for all who loved him"
The priest at the service

For information about preventing child abuse in the
state of New York, click the links below. If they can't help you, ask for
someone who can. NEVER give up looking for help for an abused child!
Call this number
to report child abuse ANY WHERE in the United States!
1-800-4-A-Child
1-800-422-4453

  
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