Ngatikaura Ngati
2002 - January 31, 2006
When I did a Google search to
find pictures of Ngatikaura, NOTHING
could have prepared me for
what I was about to see. I have heard
and read about MANY
children who were found with bruises from
head to toe, I had never
actually seen it.
The first picture to come
up was of Ngatikaura laying on his stomach,
naked and deceased. His beaten,
battered and bruised body in that
picture is one that will,
I have NO doubt, haunt me for the rest of my life. He truly did
have bruises from head to toe. It was obvious that
this sweet little boy had
suffered terribly at the hands of two monsters pretending to be parents.
It was also obvious that NEITHER of them
deserved to be called mom
or dad.
When he was only one month
old, Ngatikaura's mother decided she didn't want him and gave custody of
him to her cousin, Kura Kaufausi and her husband Finau. Unable to have
children of their own, the couple was happy to have him. Ngatikaura thrived
in his home with his adopted mother and father. He was a happy boy who
climbed into bed every night and tell his parents that he loved them before
he would say his prayers. His bedroom was full of toys, family pictures,
Winnie The Pooh and Piglet.
Ngatikaura's days were filled
with playing his Ukulele, singing on his
Karaoke machine and taking
trips with his parents to the zoo or to the
beach. His happiness was
obvious to those who met him, he was very much loved.
No one could have predicted
that three years later, his mother would
come to take him back, away
from the only life he had ever known.
Away from the parents who
loved him so much and who he loved.
Three weeks after his third
birthday, his birth mother, Maine Ngati,
decided that she wanted him
back, so she went after him. Kura would
fight for custody in November
of 2005, she and her husband would
lose that fight.
Taken from his home, he then
went to live in Otara with four other
children in an environment
that was totally foreign to him. His bed
would be a mattress on the
floor and nothing familiar on the walls to
comfort him. Ngatikaura's
language up to that point had been Tongan and this family spoke only English.
He had trouble communicating
with the new people in his
life.
The confusion caused Ngatikaura
to start wetting his pants when he
HAD previously been
potty trained. On his bottom, he developed an
ulcer the size of a mans
hand. Maine didn't take him to the doctor to
have it treated, she simply
placed a sanitary pad on it. Soon, the once
happy child would make a
complete turn around into a child who was
terrified he would be beaten
at any moment. At times he would have
accidents in his pants and
would throw them out the window so that
it would not be discovered
and he could avoid being beaten.
On January 30, 2006. Ngatikaura
receive several beatings which it is
believed started about 10am
after he had an accident in his pants.
Maine would stated that she
was very angry and picked up a stick and
beat him with it all over
his body, except for his head, which she says
she use her hand on. She
then put Ngatikaura into the bath tub.
Later that same day, Ngatikaura
woke up and needed to use the bath-
room. He was unable to get
up because of the pain he was in. Not
being able to hold it, he
soiled himself which brought on another
beating. That night, his
stepfather showered him and though police
say that the bruises, swelling
and damage to his little body would
have been plainly obvious
especially since his left arm was swollen to
twice the size it should
have been, he didn't seek help for his stepson:
"He was beaten black
and blue all over. This is as bad as anything I have seen on a child or
any human. The only
thing that was keeping
him alive, at that stage, was his young heart.
Detective Senior Sergeant
Richard Middleton.
Ngatikaura's heart was only
able to withstand so much and he was
beaten again, the next morning.
Having another accident in his pants
brought about beatings from
his mother and his stepfather, Fa'asisila.
Fa'asisila told police that
when Ngatikaura had another accident he
disciplined him by making
him stand with his hands on the wall and
lifting his feet and the
man beat the bottoms of his feat with a stick.
Police didn't believe a word
of it since the bottoms of his feet were the only place where there were
no bruises.
Physical evidence and statements
made by the other children would
show that Ngatikaura had
been beaten with a baseball bat over his
entire body, except for his
head. A search of their home showed that
a bat had been hidden and
it was covered in Ngatikaura's blood. Also,
in other rooms throughout
the house, more blood was found. In the
living room and in Ngatikaura's
bedroom, his blood was fond as high
as on the ceiling. Police
say that this would happen when someone
was hit while they were already
bleeding. Some of the blood on the
walls and floor showed obvious
signs of someone having tried to
wash it off.
Maine had gone on a job interview
in the morning, which is when the
beating with bat had taken
place. After she returned home, she would notice that Ngatikaura's condition
was getting worse and at times
during the afternoon, he
had even stopped breathing. Maine was
attempting CPR on Ngatikaura
when Fa'asisila said they should call for an ambulance. Maine said not,
saying"
"Then they will
find out"
Fa'asisila eventually went
to get his Uncle who lived close by. The
Uncle said that they should
call an ambulance right away. Maine told
the operator that she had
beaten Ngatikaura with a stick. She seemed
to be more concerned about
herself though:
"She said, 'are you
going to call the police? Even at that stage she was still more worried
about what was going to happen to her than what happened to Ngati."
Detective Richard Middleton
Ngatikaura was taken to Middlemore
Hospital and later transferred to
Starship. His adoptive mother,
Kura, stayed with him right up to the
moment he died. She leaned
over and whispered in his ear:
"go in peace"
And then Ngatikaura's swollen,
beaten, bruised and batter body, gave
out and he died.
Pathologists would argue in
court over what was the exact cause of
his death, none would argue
that his body was covered in injuries.
Pictures taken during post-mortem
showed exactly how much abuse
he had suffered while he
was alive. The investigating officer stopped
counting the bruises when
he hit 50.
The jury in the High Court
would hear how Maine, who was 32, had
punched Ngatikaura in his
face, hit him with sticks and smack him on
his head when she thought
he was being naughty. Fa'asisila, who was 27, would beat him with whatever
he could find. In their eyes, being
naughty meant he had not
moved fast enough for them, he wasn't
playing a game correctly
and once it meant he had not said "yes mum". Ngatikaura was even beaten
once for not hopping like a frog.
Finau and Kura were having
a very hard time with his death:
"I feel like my heart's
gone. My heart's been ripped out of
my body because he
was our heart. I thought I would get
over it by now but
I can't"
Kura
Finau spends time at the grave
of Ngatikaura, making sure it stays
clean. The couple often watch
videos of the firsts in his life, his first
steps, birthdays and other
important milestones.
Finau spends a lot of time
at Ngati's tiny grave, keeping it clean and tidy; Kura often watches videos
the couple took of his first steps, his birthdays, all his important milestones.
"He was a happy little
boy. He called us Mummy and Daddy.
He didn't know anyone
else"
Kura
Police learned that Maine
was claming benefits for more children than
she had living with her and
that this was the reason she had wanted
Ngatikaura to come back and
live with her. She was afraid of being
caught:
"There's nothing that
I have seen that showed she wanted
Ngati back for reasons
of love"
Kura said that she now regrets
trying to legally get custody and wishes that instead she had taken him
away to a place where they would not have been found. She says if she had,
Ngatikaura would be alive:
"I was trying to do
it the right way but as a result he
was dead within nine
weeks"
Kura had tried to visit Ngatikaura
at his new home and found that
no one would ever answer
the door. She feels guilty that he never
understood why he had to
change houses and that they had not been
to see him:
"I will always feel
guilty because in his mind when he
was getting bashed
he was probably saying 'where's
my mum, where's my
dad?"
Police didn't know how often
Ngatikaura had been beaten, though it
would have been worse during
the last two days of his life. It is
believed that the problem
with having accidents was due to the state
of mind at all that was happening
to him:
"My thoughts on that
are that they beat him so much that
he lost confidence
and he wet and pooed himself because
he got so many beatings"
Detective Richard Middleton
When Ngatikaura's arm was
cut open by the Pathologist, they were
able to see that the tissue
had died from the beatings he had been
taking. Also present was
a subdural homeroom which was estimated
to have been five to ten
days old as well as fresh trauma to his head
from the most recent beatings.
Also present was an unusual pattern
with bits of skin that were
missing from his arm, wrist and his inside thigh. The weapon that made
those marks has yet to be found.
It is not clear if anyone,
including relatives, knew about the beatings
that Ngatikaura suffered,
people denied knowing. Other than his
siblings who testified to
what they saw, Ngatikaura's abuse was not
witnessed by anyone. Mr.
Middleton found it hard to believe that even though the beatings never
occurred in front of other adults, no one ever noticed that there was anything
wrong.
A relative of Maine said that
on the morning of his death she had
been there during breakfast
and she gave him a high fight, things
seemed to be fine at that
point. The high five took place after he had
been beaten, seriously, two
times the day before and he was unable
to use his arm:
"It's impossible to
think he was 'quite happy the
morning he died"
Detective Richard Middleton
Richard says it is probably
a case of relatives ignoring what was going on or the family members didn't
want to know about it:
"In some families abuse
of this nature is commonplace
and every now and then
it turns to tragedy as it has in
this case. The answer
is never hit your kids"
Maine and Fa'asisila were
both charged with murder, though they
were found guilty of manslaughter
instead. They were also found
guilty of a another charge
of manslaughter for not seeking medical
care for Ngatikaura that
might have saved his life. They were also
found guilty of ill-treament
of a child.
Kura says it makes her sick
to know what happened to Ngatikaura. In
her eyes, Maine is no longer
her relative and says that the only way
that is life was blessed,
was the day he died and got away from the
people she says are devils:
"I'm glad they got guilty.
That will be justice
for my little man"
Justice Graham Lang said that
he understood that Maine might have
been under stress and suffering
from post natal depression when she
took Ngatikaura back into
her home. He said that the couple had
seriously abused their position
when the beat him and that using
weapons only made it more
serious. He said that their idea of what
punishment was, was not proper
and completely unjustified:
"Ngatikaura was robbed
of his life even before it had
properly begun. It
was incumbent upon you to protect
him from harm. Instead
you did the very opposite"
The Judge said that his sentence
was based on principles from a
previous Court Of Appeal
judgment stating that the manslaughter of
a defenseless child was worse
than that of an adult.
It came as a complete shock
to me when I read that the people who
were responsible for the
death of this little Angel, Maine and Fa'asisila, received sentences of
ONLY
eight and a half years with parole being
available to them after four
years and eight months.
Kura Kaufusi Ngatikaura yelled
at them after they were sentenced:
"Go hang yourselves"
Below is Ngatikaura's grave
site at Manukau Memorial Gardens.
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this little Angels case to my attention.
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