Tyler Gene McMillan
November 27, 1994 - June 12, 2008
What is a reasonable punishment to expect for disobeying
a parent?
Is it losing your life? ABSOLUTELY NOT!
However, that is what the
parents of Tyler McMillan, if intentional or not,
made him give when
he disobeyed them.
On the night of June 11, 2008, Tyler's parents tied
him to a tree in
the yard as punishment for not obeying them. This
was the SECOND
time in two nights that they had used this punishment
on him.
On June 10, Tyler had been disobedient and was tied
to the tree
for the first time and left there overnight. The
following day, the 11th of June, he was allowed back into the house and
that evening
when he was misbehaving again, he was once again
tied to the tree.
In spite of warnings from the state that the area
was unsafe due to
dense, acrid smoke coming from the Pocosin Lake
wildfire, Tyler was
left outside over night. On June 12, 2008, his
stepmother, Sandra, went out to untie him, around 4:30pm, however, it was
too late, Tyler was already beyond help.
Authorities were called and
when they arrived, they took Tyler to Heritage Hospital where he was pronounced
dead. Tyler dad been tied to the tree with plastic ties that were much
like plastic handcuffs, according to what his parents claimed, though Edgecombe
County Sheriff James Knight didn't believe them and thought that other
things might have been involved as well:
"There were other things
on the body that led us to
believe they used something
different"
After authorities arrived,
the child was taken to Heritage Hospital, where he was pronounced dead.
Law enforcement officials have not given a cause of death. James Knight
said that he had an idea of what
it was that Tyler had been
punished for, though he could not share
the information. He also
said that he was not sure which parent had
been the one to initiate
the punishment. Two other children, aged
seven and nine, were removed
from the home and placed in the
custody of the Department
Of Social Services.
Before they had moved into
this peaceful neighborhood, Tyler's
father and stepmother had
checked things out a little bit. James
Pollard, a resident said
that he was told Brice was a construction
worker. Janice Pollard stated
that Brice had asked her about their
neighborhood several months
before they moved in:
"I told him it was the
most peaceful place he'd ever find"
Macclesfieled is in rural
southern Edgecombe. There is a lot of open
farmland and houses with
shade trees lined up along two lanes of
road. James and Janice said
they had no idea that Tyler was being
abused in his home:
"If I had known he was
tied to a tree, I would have
gone over there and
got him loose. That was ridiculous"
What is odd to me is that
Tyler was tied to the tree on Wednesday
night and reports say that
he wasn't untied until around 4:30 pm on
Thursday afternoon. How is
that NO ONE in that neighborhood saw
this boy tied to a tree during
what is reported to be an 18 hour time period, yet, later, a report would
say that a dog was tied to a tree in the yard? How could people see a dog
and not a teenage boy?
After what happened to Tyler, people were left shocked
and he was
the talk of the communities. When driving by the
red brick farmhouse, people could see a dog tied to a tree, a horse roaming
in the field out
back, a pen that kept two goats and six chickens
and a wooden swing
set in the back.
Donna Harrelson said that
she was at work when she heard about
what had happened to Tyler.
That Friday, she was at Tarboro High
School for the graduation
of the latest class of seniors:
"I think that's some
sorry parents. I think they need
to do the same things
to the parents"
The father of a two year old
boy said that if the situation ever got so
bad at his house and he thought
he had no other way to discipline his
son he would get help:
"I'd certainly
seek help. That's everybody's general
reaction to it, just
outrageous"
"That is not how you
discipline your children, by tying
them to a tree. In
my opinion that's cruel and inhumane
to do that to a child”
Carolyn Pollard
Brice and Sandra McMillan
were arrested and charged with murder.
Records would show that Brice
had been convicted of several driving
violations and Sandra was
convicted of theft in Florida in 1991 and
had been placed on probation.
Other than that, the two had never
been in any trouble. Their
first court appearance was scheduled for
Monday, June 16, 2008.
At the same time that Brice
and Sandra were being brought into the
court house for their first
court appearance, family and friends had
gathered to say goodbye to
Tyler. Brice McMillan, his father, who was
41 at the time and Sandra
McMillan, his stepmother, who was 36 at
the time faced charges of
first degree murder and felony child abuse.
Brice and Sandra each had
their own lawyer at their court appearance
on June 16. In court, the
formal charges against them were read. In
court, Sandra kept her head
down and was quiet the whole time and when the charges were read against
them, Brice is said to have been
close to tears. A probable
cause hearing was set for July 2, 2008 and they were both being held without
bail at the Edgecombe County Detention Center.
"It is alleged that
on that date you did intentionally
commit an assault,
resulting in serious bodily injury,
bruising to the wrist,
cuts to the entire body, missing
flesh from the buttocks,
the result from being tied to a
tree for approximately
18 hours, resulting in the death
of Tyler Gene McMillan"
Edgecombe County District
Court Judge Joseph Harper
Authorities would have to wait until autopsy results
came back before
they would know the cause of death. If Brice and
Sandra were to be
convicted of his death, they could face either
life in prison or the
death penalty.
Meanwhile, at the Greenville
Church, where Tyler had grown up, his family and friends had gathered to
bury him, pay their respects and
say their final goodbyes
to the boy who loved to play outside with
his cousins and had many
hobbies. Tyler would be buried next to his
mother in the family cemetery,
she had died of Cancer in 2004.
We will miss Tyler very
much and are in shock,
disbelief and unbearable
grief"
The family of Tyler
Read
On Facebook: Justice For Tyler McMillan

The family of Tyler asked
that in place of flowers, donations could
be sent to an educational
fund set up for Tyler's younger brother:
P.O. Box 2483
Winterville, N.C. 28590
In December of 2008, an autopsy
report showed that Tyler had most
likely died from dehydration
and heat stroke. Also revealed by the
autopsy was the fact that
Tyler had insect bites all over his body and
bruises that seemed to be
caused by a rod like instrument. There was
also flesh missing from his
buttocks and marks on his wrists and
ankles which show he was
tied up with plastic ties. The autopsy report said that Tyler's temperature
was 105.6 degrees when he was taken to the hospital.
The results of the autopsy
were released after WRAL television station
in Raleigh challenged Judge
Franklin R. Brown ordered it sealed, the result of a motion filed by the
defense. Layers for WRAL wrote to the
judge in October challenging
his ruling.
The dispatcher who took the
911 call on the incident asked Brice and
Sandra several times what
Tyler was doing before he had stopped
breathing. Brice told the
dispatcher that Tyler didn't have any medical
problems. Towards the end
of the call, Brice and Sandra had stopped
responding to questions asked
by the dispatcher.
Brice and Sandra were scheduled
to appear in court again on January
13, 2009. On March 10, 2009,
Sandra was released after posting bail on a $200,000. secured bond which
had been set by Judge Milton Fitch Jr. of the North Carolina Superior Court.
The bond requires
Sandra to live with her cousin
in Cary and wear an electronic monitor
at all times. Sandra is not
allowed to leave the state and would be
giving limited visits with
her eight year old daughter who lives with
her grandparents and will
be called as a witness at Sandra's trial.
Sandra is allowed to leave
her residence ONLY for attorney visits.
Sandra entered a plea of not
guilty during her appearance in court in
January of 2009. Brice also
plead not guilty to charges against him, he is being held without bail.
The District Attorney's Office stated that
they will not seek the death
penalty against Sandra, though they have
not said if they will seek
it against Brice. A tentative date has been set
for trial for Sandra, for
July 6, 2009
Tyler's Obituary
GREENVILLE -- Tyler Gene McMillan,
13, passed away Thursday, June 12, 2008, at Heritage Hospital. The funeral
service will be conducted Monday at 10:30 a.m. in Jarvis Memorial United
Methodist Church. Burial will be beside his mother in the family cemetery.
Tyler was born and raised
in Pitt County. He began his schooling at Greenville Christian Academy
and then attended Trinity Christian School. He grew up attending Jarvis
Memorial United Methodist Church. Tyler was active in many hobbies. He
enjoyed reading, fishing, karate, being a Boy Scout and watching Professional
Wrestling. He loved playing outdoors with his cousins.
He has gone to join his mother,
Michelle (Mickie), who preceded him in death.
He is survived by his father,
Brice B. McMillan and stepmother; brother, Ryan Wesley McMillan; stepsister,
Bryanna; paternal grandparents, Sam and Vi McMillan; maternal grandparents,
Carl and June Sasser and Dessa Forsythe; and a very large and loving extended
family. The family will receive friends at Wilkerson Funeral Home Sunday
from 5 to 7 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, donations
for an Educational Fund for his surviving brother in the name of Ryan Wesley
McMillan may be sent to P. O. Box 2483, Winterville, NC 28590. Online condolences
at StarNewsOnline.com
Obituary for Tyler's birth mother
STARNEWS ONLINE. WHITEVILLE,
COLUMBUS COUNTY,
NORTH CAROLINA.
Mrs. Michelle Sasser "Mickie"
McMillan
GREENVILLE, NC - Mrs. Michelle
Sasser "Mickie" McMillan, 37, went to be with the Lord Friday, September
24, 2004, at her home.
The funeral service will be
conducted Wednesday at 2 p.m. in Jarvis
Memorial United Methodist
Church. Burial will follow in the Brown Family Cemetery near Belvoir.
Mickie was born in Havre de
Grace, Maryland, and grew up in Charlestown, Maryland, and in Wilmington,
North Carolina. A 1984 graduate of Laney High School in Wilmington, she
moved to Greenville where she received two degrees from East Carolina University:
in 1988, a BA degree in Broadcasting Communications, and in 1994, a BS
in Mathematics. She was employed at WITN-TV for several years and had taught
Math at Wellcome Middle School for 10 years, prior to retiring due to disability
in 2003.
Mickie was a member of Jarvis
Memorial United Methodist Church, where she was active in the Children's
Ministry and in the contemporary service. In addition to her work in the
children's ministry, she also was a longtime volunteer for the Children's
Miracle Telethon. Mickie was a devoted wife and mother, a loving daughter
and sister.
She is survived by her husband,
Brice McMillan; and sons, Tyler Gene McMillan and Ryan Wesley McMillan,
all of the home; father and stepmother, Carl and June Sasser of Wilmington,
NC; mother, Dessa S. Forsythe of Charlestown, MD; brother, Brian Sasser;
and sister, Shannon Sasser, both of Wilmington, NC; maternal grandmother,
Gertrude "Coo-Coo" Starling of Charlestown, MD; and numerous aunts, uncles,
nieces, nephews, extended family and friends.
The family will receive friends
from 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday at Wilkerson Funeral Home.
Memorials may be made to Jarvis
Memorial United Methodist Church, 510 S. Washington Street, Greenville,
NC 27834; or to Trinity Christian School, 3111 Golden Road, Greenville,
NC 27858.
Wilkerson Funeral Home, Greenville.
For information about preventing
child abuse in the state of North Carolina, click the links below. If they
can't help you, ask for someone who can. NEVER give up looking for
help for an abused child!
Call this number to report
child abuse ANY WHERE in the United States!
1-800-4-A-Child
1-800-422-4453

 
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